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15
tricks to boost your dating profile
Linda Rains, Match.com
Think
there's a secret to posting photos at Match.com? You're
right. In fact, there are 15 of them. Like it or not,
the opposite sex is known to make snap judgments based
on appearance Ñ and some photos work, others don't. So
grab your digicam or your photo album and scanner, find
your best mug shot, and get ready for love.
1.
Smile big. We've all got a serious side, but most
will agree that a smile is a best bet to attract the opposite
sex. Turn that frown upside down and say cheese.
2.
Clown around. Don't be shy about sharing that funny
side, especially if it's part of your true nature. If
your favorite shot just happens to include a set of Groucho
Marx glasses, use it. Just be sure your profile text matches
your image with witty, humorous repartee.
3.
Don't be a poser. Resist the urge to post posed
webcam shots from your desktop, and stay away from that
self-timer. Shots like these are often awkward with uncomfortable
pasted-on smiles. Unless you've got a knack for self-timed
snaps, enlist the assistance of a friend.
4.
Keep it clean. The grunge look went out years ago,
as did dirty, oily hair and greasy fingernails (wait,
that was never in). Best to clean up for your profile
shots; save those camping, fishing, or mud volleyball
shots for another time.
5.
Get in focus. Completely unclear to this writer
(literally) are the folks who post out-of-focus, fuzzy
photos on their profiles. Find a sharper image and ditch
the blurry look.
6.
Up close and personal. Even worse are photos that
make admirers squint to see your smiling face. Long-distance
love is good; photos at long distance are not. Keep it
close for your profile shot.
7.
Not too risquŽ. Do not ogle the camera with a lascivious
gaze or deck yourself out in a too sexy and overly revealing
boudoir getup. Yes, you'll earn oohs, ahs, and varied
guffaws. But in the end, you'll get a laugh and not an
email.
8.
Be current. If that fave shot just happens to be two,
three, four or more years old, save it for the photo album.
Outdated looks will surely confuse and possibly even anger
your date, should you meet in the offline world.
9.
Don't kid around. Mention your kids in your profile,
but don't include them in your profile photo. There's
a time and a place to introduce the little ones, and your
online photo page is not it.
10.
Be a groupie. Most dating and flirting experts
say that men or women who look like they are having fun
in a group often catch the eye of the opposite sex. If
you've got a group shot, feel free to use it. Just be
sure to point yourself out in your profile.
11.
But don't couple up. Old photos featuring you and
ex-loves are strictly prohibited from profiles Ñ even
if you've taken steps to crop that former date out. For
now, keep that ex in the closet.
12.
Petting is okay. You've already got someone who's
the love of your life Ñ it just so happens that his name
is Spot. Four-legged friends are typically irresistible
and give admirers an excuse to write. Use them to your
advantage.
13.
Nothing to hide. It's great that you cycle, ski,
blade, or even skydive. But take the heavy-duty equipment
off (or at least the headgear) for that athletic shot.
It's your face we'd like to see, not the goggles, helmet
or parachute.
14.
In the dark. Similarly, poorly lit photos that
are dark or shadowed tell us that you may have something
to hide. Opt for images that are well lit, clear and easy
to see.
15.
No time to reflect. Finally, if you wear glasses,
be sure that flash is pointed away from your specs or
turned off. The glare from your glasses is not only disturbing;
it's been known to distort an otherwise attractive face.
Ready
to change your own image and up your email factor? Update
your profile and post a new photo today.
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