Dating with All 5 Senses
By Linda Rains

You finally scored a date with that brunette you've been eyeing for weeks. After playing it smooth with flirty emails, the occasional compliment, and lingering glances exchanged at crucial moments, somehow you managed to work your way in. Good for you. But now, the real work begins.

Because what you've achieved so far, surprisingly enough, is the easy part. It's what you've got ahead that's tough…and I'm not talking about securing reservations at the city's most exclusive dining spot. You may not know it but from this point out, you're on the line. While on a first date, dollars mean little, name-dropping even less. If you believe its these superficial distractions that wow your date, well… you're wrong. Yes, lavish meals and local celebrity friends may impress, but while you concentrate on these, your date has focused all five senses in tight. And believe it or not, even your most minor mishap could be fatal.

The look of love.
The first impression is all about sight. So skip the grunge and go for khakis or at least a decent pair of jeans (yes, the ones without holes). Even if you've opted for the casual movie kind of date, it's always better to overdress than under. If your top's got a spot, toss it aside. You may think it blends, but unless it's covered, it's impossible to miss. Got a huge crease from collar to waste? Take a moment to heat up the iron. Before exiting the car, check the teeth, double take the do, make certain you've removed all tags from any new articles. Once clear, make your approach.

Be especially scent-sitive.
Women, know this: four out of five biology professors agree that men are keener to smell. So do hold back when spraying the scent ¨¢ because knocking him out from five feet away is generally not a good way to start a date. Men, please don't pick this night to try a new antiperspirant. And, never ever kick off the shoes in an effort to relax. Even a whiff will undermine your better efforts.

Sounds like trouble.
At all costs, resist sharing bad jokes, even during those awkward silent moments. Save the X-rated stuff for the boys, and the male-bashing for the gals. Tread lightly on political talk and resist the urge to embellish about current events. While it's okay to share opinion, it's better to avoid argument on this crucial first evening together - that is, if you wish for a second. Also be aware that's she's paying attention to how you address the waitress, and he's keyed in to how loudly you laugh at the bartender. For now at least, love the one you're with.

Touchy, touchy.
There is little so powerful as human contact to let someone know you're interested. So if you've made it this far and your first three senses are right on target, use this most potent weapon wisely. But first, pay careful attention to your own areas that are likely make contact: hair, lips, hands, legs. Then, go in for the kill. Of course, never grope your date, but use subtle cues. A gentle nudge, casual touch of the shoulder or elbow, quick grasp of the hand ¨¢ to hint at your interest.

Do you have good taste?
Finally, at the closing point of this first date, you'll be glad you went garlic-free. In fact, on date one, it's best to avoid spices entirely. If you follow your meal with coffee or drinks, be sure you've got your Altoids on hand. Because when you move in close for the final good night kiss, you want your date to think about how hot and spicy YOU are, not the Mexican entrée you enjoyed earlier.